“…In addition, mothers can experience a sense of loss including loss of autonomy, time, occupational identity, appearance, femininity, and sexuality (Nicolson, 1999). Women tend to hide these feelings out of shame because society expects them to feel intense joy, so, they strive harder to meet the ideal (Knudson‐Martin & Silverstein, 2009; Mauthner, 2002; Mickelson, Biehle, Chong, & Gordon, 2017). Several qualitative studies suggest the internalisation of these cultural expectations combined with the tendency to hide feelings of distress play a significant role in the development of postnatal depression (Beck, 2002; Choi et al, 2005; Henderson et al, 2016; Liss, Schiffrin, & Rizzo, 2013; Mauthner, 2002; Read, Crockett, & Mason, 2012).…”