Exploiting common language as an auxiliary for better translation has a long tradition in machine translation, which lets supervised learning based machine translation enjoy the enhancement delivered by the well-used pivot language, in case that the prerequisite of parallel corpus from source language to target language cannot be fully satisfied. The rising of unsupervised neural machine translation (UNMT) seems completely relieving the parallel corpus curse, though still subject to unsatisfactory performance so far due to vague clues available used for its core back-translation training. Further enriching the idea of pivot translation by freeing the use of parallel corpus other than its specified source and target, we propose a new reference language based UNMT framework, in which the reference language only shares parallel corpus with the source, indicating clear enough signal to help the reconstruction training of UNMT through a proposed reference agreement mechanism. Experimental results show that our methods improve the quality of UNMT over that of a strong baseline in terms of only one auxiliary language, demonstrating the usefulness of the proposed reference language based UNMT with a good start.