“…Boundaries are thus, manifestations of deep‐seeded sexual desires, which are actualized to their fullest potential—without crossing the threshold of one's personal limits of comfort. While gay group sex may be perceived as a catalyst for HIV transmission (Grov et al, 2013; Solomon et al, 2011), a variety of risk reduction practices have been shown to be promoted and honoured within‐group sex events, such as circulating condoms, disclosing personal health (e.g., HIV sero‐status), designating spaces for specific practices (e.g., barebacking, drug use), serosorting and defining etiquette and other norms of interaction (Clatts, 2005; Fulcher et al, 2019; Harviainen & Frank, 2018; Meunier, 2014; Rich et al, 2016). Group sex is structured to a limited extent by general rules and etiquette, some of which are more flexible than others, enabling a softly defined field of freedom and spontaneity from which to play (Harviainen & Frank, 2018).…”