Coupling, the mechanism that controls the sequence of events in bone remodelling, is a fundamental theory for understanding the way the skeleton changes throughout life. This review is an adapted version of the Louis V Avioli lecture, delivered at the Annual Scientific Meeting of the American Society of Bone and Mineral Research. It outlines the history of the coupling concept and details how coupling occurs within trabecular and cortical bone and describes its multiple contexts and the many mechanisms suggested to couple bone forming osteoblasts to the prior action of osteoclasts on the same bone surface. These mechanisms include signals produced at each stage of the remodelling sequence (resorption, reversal, and formation), such as factors released by osteoclasts through their resorptive action and through protein synthesis, molecules deposited in the cement line during the reversal phase, and potentially signals from osteocytes within the local bone environment. The review highlights two examples of coupling factors (Cardiotrophin 1 and EphrinB2:EphB4) to illustrate the limited data available, and the need to integrate both the many functions of these factors within the basic multicellular unit (BMU), and the multiple origins of these factors, including other cell types present during the remodelling sequence (such as osteocytes, macrophages, endothelial cells, and T-cells).