“…While the criteria for diagnosing mourning with complications, also called traumatic mourning, have been remarkably well established both in the United States (Horowitz et al, 1998; Prigerson et al., 1995, 1999) and in France (Bacqué, 1997), Hanus (2001) recently drew a parallel between successful mourning and resilience. The capacity to overcome the loss by symbolizing it has been assessed using a few convergent criteria: - The possibility, during the final interview, of evoking the lost child with his/her good and bad sides, without excessive idealization and with restrained affects (i.e., without tears, contrary to the beginning and intermediate stages of the follow-up).
- The possibility of carrying on with normal life events (moving, going on vacation, having another child, etc.
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