Sickle cell anemia (SCA) is a life‐threatening genetic condition contributing to high‐risk pregnancies affecting both the mother and fetus. With improved management of children with SCA, this life‐threatening hematological disorder has evolved into a chronic disease of adults, and consequently parenthood has now become a possible and important life goal for many patients. Providing continuous management with healthy red blood cell function and avoiding SCA‐associated complications, such as pain crises, acute chest syndrome, and stroke, are crucial for a healthy pregnancy. Despite its excellent safety profile in non‐pregnant adults and children, and based on theoretical concerns derived from data using animal models and supraphysiological dosing, hydroxyurea is currently contraindicated for pregnant and lactating women with SCA. Clinical experience of hydroxyurea use during pregnancy is increasingly reported, however, and has shown inconsistent results of fetal or infant adverse effects. How the hydroxyurea exposure level may correlate with pregnancy outcomes is still unclear. Accordingly, efforts should be made to systemically evaluate exposure and safety of hydroxyurea treatment during pregnancy and lactation. Novel approaches such as physiologically based pharmacokinetic (PBPK) modeling, coupled with the ex vivo human placental cotyledon perfusion assay, provide opportunities to understand hydroxyurea exposure not only in pregnant women but also in the developing fetus. Combined with animal data, research using these approaches might be able to define safe and effective hydroxyurea dosing regimens for pregnant and lactating women with SCA, when the benefits of continuing hydroxyurea treatment likely outweigh the risks of non‐treatment, by avoiding substantial morbidity and even mortality for both mothers and infants.