“…Alternatively, rather than refer to actual ages, the term ‘child’ is used to represent the victim and ‘adult’ for the perpetrator (Berelowitz et al, ; Leclerc et al, ; May‐Chahal et al, ). Or the perpetrator is referred to in terms of his/her relationship to the victim such as father, mother, sibling, friend of the family or babysitter, from which the reader may infer that the perpetrator is older (Bahali et al, ; Hendriks and Bijleveld, ; Kloppen et al, ; Kucuk, ).…”