“…Sometimes it is all of the above, 83 at other times no specific actors are discernible 84 ; (2) the Aristotelean notion of philia, a mainstay as a springboard for discussion, 85 even when narrowed to philia politike, is problematic because (a) philia has such an extensive semantic scope that it is able to include any kind of relationship of good will and (b) because it only pertained to the male elite of the Greek city states. 86 Philia politike can thus only be marshalled in modern context at the price of ahistoricism unless extraordinary circumspection is exercised in its transfer to modern social relations. 87 (3) A prevalent jettisoning of intimate friendshipprivate, personal, and self-orientedmay be accompanied by its misconceived devaluation as somehow hermetically sealed in the private sphere.…”