A chalcogen atom Y contains two separate σ-holes when in a R 1 YR 2 molecular bonding pattern. Quantum chemical calculations consider competition between these two σ-holes to engage in a chalcogen bond (ChB) with a NH 3 base. R groups considered include F, Br, I, and tert-butyl (tBu). Also examined is the situation where the Y lies within a chalcogenazole ring, where its neighbors are C and N. Both electron-withdrawing substituents R 1 and R 2 act cooperatively to deepen the two σ-holes, but the deeper of the two holes consistently lies opposite to the more electron-withdrawing group, and is also favored to form a stronger ChB. The formation of two simultaneous ChBs in a triad requires the Y atom to act as double electron acceptor, and so anti-cooperativity weakens each bond relative to the simple dyad. This effect is such that some of the shallower σ-holes are unable to form a ChB at all when a base occupies the other site.