The gay and lesbian community suffers higher rates of discrimination, mental health problems, and relationship break-up than their heterosexual counterparts. In this paper we analyse the challenges confronting same-sex couples, and the implications for couple education and therapy with same-sex couples. We describe some similarities in the challenges confronting heterosexual and same-sex couples (e.g., negotiation of shared realistic relationship expectations, effective communication). These similarities suggest existing evidence-based approaches to couple therapy and relationship education are likely to assist same sex couple relationships. We also describe distinctive challenges for same-sex couples (e.g., homophobic discrimination, internalised homophobia, and low support from many families for same sex relationships). These distinctive challenges suggest some adaptation of existing approaches to couple education and therapy could enhance their relevance and effectiveness to same sex couples.
Key Points1 Gay and lesbian individuals suffer higher rates of psychological problems and relationship break-up than heterosexual individuals, and these problems are closely related to homophobic discrimination. 2 Relationship education and couple therapy have considerable potential to enhance same sex relationships and individual adjustment of gay and lesbian people. 3 Existing evidence based relationship education and therapy is likely to be helpful to same-sex couples, but some modification to address specific challenges for same-sex couples is needed.Gay and lesbian individuals in Australia, as in many other countries, have higher rates of individual mental health problems and relationship difficulties than their heterosexual counterparts. Much evidence indicates that couple Relationship Education (RE) and couple therapy can enhance heterosexual couple relationships, which in turn can assist the individual mental health of the partners (Halford & Bodenmann, 2013;Snyder & Halford, 2012). The current paper analyses the influences on relationship satisfaction and stability in same sex couple relationships. We then discuss the implications of that evidence for adapting existing approaches to RE and couple therapy when working with same-sex couples. We begin by introducing the minority stress model, and the impact that minority stress has on the individual well-being and couple functioning for same-sex couples.