Quantum Zeno and anti-Zeno eects in an asymmetric nonlinear optical coupler are studied. The asymmetric nonlinear optical coupler is composed of a linear waveguide (χ (1) ) and a nonlinear waveguide (χ (2) ) interacting with each other through the evanescent waves. The nonlinear waveguide has quadratic nonlinearity and it operates under second harmonic generation. A completely quantum mechanical description is used to describe the system. The closed form analytic solutions of Heisenberg's equations of motion for the dierent eld modes are obtained using Sen-Mandal perturbative approach. In the coupler, the linear waveguide acts as a probe on the system (nonlinear waveguide). The eect of the presence of the probe (linear waveguide) on the photon statistics of the second harmonic mode of the system is considered as quantum Zeno and anti-Zeno eects. Further, it is also shown that in the stimulated case, it is easy to switch between quantum Zeno and anti-Zeno eects just by controlling the phase of the second harmonic mode of the asymmetric coupler.