Reciprocity in a Securely Attached Mother-Infant Dyad

Abstract

This article describes the interactions between a highly attuned, sensitive mother, who had the capacity to achieve primary maternal preoccupation, and her infant during his first four months of life. The evolving secure attachment patterns discerned from weekly observations in a naturalistic setting correspond with Beatrice Beebe's findings using microanalysis of mother-infant face-to-face interactions to predict the nature of the four-month infant's emerging internal working model of attachment. Using a series of vignettes, the author illustrates how this mother-infant dyad were adept at coordinating their attention, affective responses, vocal rhythms, and touch in ways that seemed to promote feelings of mutual recognition and enjoyment for them both. The mother's capacity for reflective functioning enabled her to imagine what her baby was feeling and to consistently comfort him, contributing to the formation of their secure mother-infant bond.There is no such thing as a baby . . . if you show me a baby, you certainly show me also someone caring for the baby, or at least a pram with someone's eyes and ears glued to it. -Donald Winnicott, 1992a

‘Hopelessly devoted to you’: An examination of Winnicott’s concept of primary maternal preoccupation in the identity and practice of male group analysts

“…This prevails even though a mother’s pregnancy is a different and weighted added feature, referenced by Daniel. Parenting and the love between parent and child in its reciprocity, referred to beautifully by Bloch (2014), can be evident in the unconscious dynamics within a group, meeting your parent as conductor and siblings as other members in group.…”