“…This study also builds on previous research on reproductive decision-making, which in the context of the USA showed how contingent reproduction was, particularly for gay men, most of whom were found to be ‘situational parents’ (Stacey, 2006). Reproductive contingency was also found to be the case for heterosexual men in the USA, UK, Australia and South Africa (Bartholomaeus and Riggs, 2017, Blell, 2018, Marsiglio, 1991, Morison, 2013), as well as for heterosexual couples in Spain (Alvarez, 2018) – only half of the latter wondered when to have children, whilst the other half wondered whether to actually have children at all. This reproductive contingency could be attributed to different factors that may deter individuals from parenthood: postmodern values of self-fulfilment (Giddens, 1992); pressures on ‘intensive parenting’ (Faircloth and Gurtin, 2017); poor child-care services in the neoliberal context (Briggs, 2017), to which in case of gay men are added increased practical, symbolic and other difficulties to actually achieve parenthood.…”