Conduit connectors are widely used in the manufacturing of aviation equipment such as aircraft engines and aircraft assemblies. The surface roughness of conduit connector is a key quality characteristic to ensure the sealing connection of pipeline systems. Small deviations in the surface quality of conduits can lead to significant quality issues in aircraft, so high-precision measurement of micro roughness of conduit connector surfaces is of great significance for controlling aircraft quality and optimizing support manufacturing processes. Compared with contact measurement methods, optical measurement methods take an irreplaceable position in micro-nano scale roughness measurement which have many advantages such as non-destructive, high-precision and high-speed. An optical measurement method for surface roughness of aircraft conduit connector based on a triangular structured illumination system is proposed in this article, which combines high-precision fringe phase analysis algorithm and accurate height mapping algorithm to realize morphological restoration and the calculation of the roughness of the tested area. Relational experiment is carried out to verify the feasibility of the proposed method.