Link to publication Citation for published version (APA): Björk, M., Sundler, A. J., Hallström, I., & Hammarlund, K. (2016). Like being covered in a wet and dark blanketParents' lived experiences of losing a child to cancer. European Journal of Oncology Nursing, 25, 40-45. DOI: 10.1016/j.ejon.2016 General rights Copyright and moral rights for the publications made accessible in the public portal are retained by the authors and/or other copyright owners and it is a condition of accessing publications that users recognise and abide by the legal requirements associated with these rights.• Users may download and print one copy of any publication from the public portal for the purpose of private study or research.• You may not further distribute the material or use it for any profit-making activity or commercial gain • You may freely distribute the URL identifying the publication in the public portal Conclusion: There is a need for good palliative care. If not, there is a risk that the parent will perseverate and blame themselves for not being a good parent during the suffering child's last time in life. Meetings with the parents six months and two years after the child's death might facilitate healing through the grief process.