“…Second, four personal‐experience narratives were obtained by verbal requests to ‘Tell me about a frightening/embarrassing/happy/funny experience that you have had at any time in your life’. A range of emotionally charged narratives were used because discourse topic may affect the discourse performance due to its interest value, the speaker's involvement in or attitude to it, its importance, vividness, or stressful or sensational nature (Longacre , Peterson and McCabe , Sherratt ). Third, six procedures (relatively complex, male oriented or gender neutral, and usually learnt as an adult) were elicited by a verbal request to ‘Tell me how you would …’ (change a car tyre, fix window, teach bike‐riding, buy a jacket, borrow a library book, shop in a supermarket).…”