“…The original measure included 17 codes capturing important components of disengagement suggested in previous research (Hess, 2002;Heyman & Vivan, 2000;Parkinson & Totterdell, 1999;Smith et al, 1990); however, based on the author's previous use of the measure (e.g., Barry, 2010), these 17 codes were reduced to six codes for this study. These six codes were chosen because they demonstrated higher reliability and validity in the original development of the coding system; furthermore, scores on these codes yielded greater variability (i.e., certain codes rarely observed were dropped; Barry, 2010). These six codes included (a) avoiding the discussion (e.g., refusing to talk about an issue), (b) shutting out the partner behaviorally (e.g., refusing to make eye contact), (c) showing low evidence of listening to the partner (e.g., showing few/no verbal and nonverbal behaviors occurring in response to a speaker's words), (d) brushing off the partner (e.g., verbally expressing denial, disinterest, or giving up), (e) showing low evidence of interest in the discussion (e.g., asking few/no questions that express genuine interest), and (f) low levels of verbal engagement (e.g., less frequently speaking and giving appropriate time for partner to respond).…”