Hybrid fiber wireless (FiWi) access networks seek to combine the vast amount of bandwidth that is available for optical networks and wireless network mobility; hence, it favors larger bandwidth request but cause the highly nonlinear lagrangian dual problem that decrease energy‐efficient network resilience. Hence, a novel Ceplato‐SAT3 model has been proposed in which the SAT3 algorithm locates the optical network unit (ONU) in an optimal position with high‐speed cost‐efficient placement and weight factor introduced into the position update to improve the exploitation and exploration capability of the algorithm. To prioritize the large bandwidth request during resource allocation, gradient priority justifier requests (GPJR) has been utilized and a novel messaging technique termed flow‐random‐message‐exchanger‐topology (FRMET) provides the index for these prioritized requests depending on QoS parameters such as notification control, reflective QoS attribute (RQA), flow bit rates and maximum packet loss rate thereby decreasing the overhead and eliminate nonlinear langrage dualand perform O2U scheduling to reduce network resilience however synchronization between different ONU clocks may cause upstream data fatal crash at the optical line terminal (OLT). Hence, curl‐trio‐opt control mechanism has been proposed in which the minimization problem is transformed into a joint optimization problem of energy consumption, traffic demand, network requests, and service flow requests by the Lyapunov technique thereby minimizing the upstream data fatal lash. The proposed model has been implemented in Python and the output obtained showed better performance in terms of ONU arrangement, throughput, energy consumption, computation, latency, and error.