Objectives: To provide qualitative insight into the experiences of compassion (to self, to others, and from others) among family carers of older adults by exploring the written responses provided within a cross-sectional survey that asked about carers' levels of compassion, mindfulness, emotion regulation, coping strategies, and psychological health.Methods: Family carers of adults aged ≥65 years from around the world completed the survey between July -December 2019. To provide carers with an opportunity to describe experiences in their own words and expand on issues beyond the limits of closed-response items, the survey included eight free-text boxes. These appeared after each self-report measure, and at the end of the survey.From a total of 127 carers providing 504 written responses, inductive qualitative content analysis identified and evaluated 245 comments from 105 family carers' that were about their experiences of compassion (to self, to others, and from others).Results: Some family carers perceived a lack of compassion, both for themselves and from others, and several barriers to carers' openness to receiving compassion were identified. Factors influencing carers' compassion to others in general included how carers were feeling themselves, the person it was directed towards, and the situation. Within the caregiving relationship specifically, this included care recipients' level of need and behaviour.Conclusions: Findings provide qualitative understanding about family carers' realities of compassion (to self, to others, and from others) within their role, and highlight the applicability and warranted focus of compassion-based approaches within family caregiving research and practice.