Attachment and feedback-seeking 2
AbstractAdults with different attachment orientations rely on different areas of life to maintain self-views. This paper reports two studies that examine the link between attachment and feedback-seeking patterns in interpersonal and competence-related domains.Participants in Study 1 imagined receiving feedback from a friend. Participants in Study 2 completed dyadic tasks and were promised feedback from interpersonal-and competence-relevant sources. Across both studies, secure individuals consistently chose the most positive feedback. Individuals high in attachment avoidance sought negative feedback over positive, although dismissing-avoidant individuals sought positive hypothetical feedback about autonomy. Study 2 further suggested that highly avoidant individuals were more open to negative feedback than positive feedback and than were secure individuals. Moreover, individuals high in attachment anxiety failed to seek positive interpersonal feedback but pursued interpersonal over competence feedback.Results highlight the role of feedback-seeking in maintenance of positive or negative self-views for adults with different attachment orientations.Keywords: Attachment, self-views, feedback-seeking, sources of self-esteem Attachment and feedback-seeking 3
Adult Attachment and Feedback-Seeking Patterns in Relationships and WorkIndividuals with different attachment orientations possess self-concepts differing in valence and structure. These differences are thought to originate in early caregiving experiences. But how do they persist into adulthood? One important process by which the self is maintained and developed is receiving self-relevant feedback from others.Feedback provides vital information about strengths and weaknesses, and people often go out of their way to seek it. Seeking particular feedback influences the information one receives in return, contributing to self-concept maintenance and change. In the present research, we examine the ways in which attachment orientation influences feedback-seeking in important areas of life. In so doing, we aim to shed light on the ways that insecure individuals maintain negative self-views.
Attachment, Affect-Regulation, and Sources of Self-WorthAccording to attachment theory (Bowlby, 1969(Bowlby, , 1973(Bowlby, , 1980), people's early caregiving experiences shape the way they mentally represent the self and relationships, and the strategies they use to navigate the social world throughout the lifespan (known as attachment orientation; Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters, & Wall, 1978;Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991). In adulthood, secure adults possess more positive, coherent, and stable self-representations than insecure adults (Foster, Kernis, & Goldman, 2007;Mikulincer, 1995). One reason is that people with varying attachment histories develop different affect-regulation strategies (Mikulincer, Shaver, & Pereg, 2003) and rely on different sources for feelings of self-worth (Brennan & Morris, 1997). We outline this logic next.Infants whose caregiver...