“…Based on nationally representative, random samples Blow and Hartnett (2005b) suggest an estimate of lifetime prevalence of up to 25% for married partners engaging in extradyadic sexual intercourse in the United States. For the UK, the last major study of sexual behaviour (National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifesyles, Natsal) found 15% of men and 9% of women reported overlapping sexual relationships in the previous year (Johnson et al, 2001). It can be estimated that about half of all couples seeking therapy have encountered infidelity either in the past or present (Weeks, Gambescia & Jenkins, 2003) and many of these clients report infidelity as the presenting problem when seeing marital of family therapists (Atwood & Seifer, 1997).…”