“…Centrally guiding my understanding of Teresa are words from Ferenczi (1929Ferenczi ( /1955Ferenczi ( , 1933Ferenczi ( /1955 ; Kohut (1971Kohut ( , 1977Kohut ( , 1981Kohut ( , 1984 ; and Atwood, Stolorow and Orange ( Atwood and Stolorow, 1980 ;Atwood et al , 2002 ;Orange et al , 1997 ;Stolorow and Atwood, 1992) . Ferenczi (1929Ferenczi ( /1955 in his paper, " The unwelcome child and his death instinct " , explained the dynamics that fi t Teresa as an unwanted child, especially her chronic suicidal ideation and self-mutilation: … children who are received in a harsh and unloving way die easily and willingly.…”