“…These negative social control strategies reflect interpersonal influence that is aimed at generating the desired partner behavior through negative affect and disengagement, and such negative (Gottman, 1982(Gottman, , 1994 and disconfirming communication (Weger, 2005) might be harmful to the relationship. Much of the research on social control suggests that positive social control should be more effective in influencing partners to be healthier (Lewis & Butterfield, 2007) and that negative social control is less effective, or potentially ineffective, when it comes to partners' healthy behavior adoption (Tucker & Anders, 2001). The research on social control perceptions, particularly with regard to relationship quality is limited, however.…”