“…Another relevant distinction is that rules or norms can either be perceived as one's own or as valued by important others' views of ourselves (Higgins, 1996). Altogether, a distinction of perceived norms can be made between a) descriptive norms (i.e., socially shared norms about what others do), b) subjective norms (i.e., believes what important others expect one to do or be), c) and injunctive norms (i.e., believes of what is commonly approved or disapproved by others) (Bell & Cox, 2015;Schultz, Nolan, Cialdini, Goldstein, & Griskevicius, 2007). All these norms may relate to the ideal expectations, realistic expectations, and ought selves.…”