“…COR theory is a motivational framework that explains why people behave or feel the way they do when stressed, with the key assumption being that people strive to acquire, maintain, and protect their resources (Hobfoll, 1989(Hobfoll, , 2001. It is often used to explain the costs and benefits associated with social support processes (in that social support often creates resource reservoirs; Jolly et al, 2020), and helps explain the divergence in outcomes we anticipate between SEE-E and SEE-I. According to COR theory, psychological stress occurs in three ways: when 1) resources are lost, 2) resources are not regained after they are invested, and 3) resources are threatened with loss. When elicited for support, potential support providers are likely to evaluate the form of the elicitation as well as the costs and benefits of the potential support response, and these evaluations factor into whether the elicitation is experienced as a potential threat to one's resources.…”