Sex is often used to describe a suite of phenotypic and genotypic traits of an organism related to reproduction. However, not all of these traits - gamete type, chromosomal inheritance, physiology, morphology, behavior, etc. - are necessarily linked, and the rhetorical collapse of variation into a single term elides much of the complexity inherent in reproductive phenotypes. We argue that consideration of sex as a constructed category operating at multiple biological levels opens up new avenues for inquiry in our study of biological variation. We apply this framework to three case studies that illustrate the diversity of sex variation, from decoupling sexual phenotypes to the evolutionary and ecological consequences of intrasexual polymorphisms. We argue that instead of assuming binary or bimodal sex in these systems, some may be better categorized as multimodal. Finally, we conduct a meta-analysis of terms used to describe diversity in sexual phenotypes in the scientific literature to highlight how a more inclusive and expansive framework for multimodal sex can clarify, rather than cloud, studies of sexual diversity within and across species. We argue that such an expanded understanding of sex better equips us to understand evolutionary processes on their own terms, and that as biologists it is incumbent upon us to push back against misunderstandings of the biology of sexual phenotypes that enact harm on marginalized communities.