“…They represent concrete, bodily, sensory knowledge about what we want or need from others, how we expect others to act toward us, and how we feel and act in response (Bucci, 1997a;Edelman, 1989). In child therapy, it is important to listen most carefully to the verbs, as this language is closest to the way the child experiences feelings in an actiondominated manner (Blake, 2011;Tuber & Caflisch, 2011). The transition from action language toward symbolic thought occurs with the emergence of self-recognition (Stern, 1985), leading to the capacity to differentiate experienced state from behavior and gradually symbolic thinking takes up hegemony (Wilson & Malatesta, 1989).…”