2017
DOI: 10.1111/pere.12197
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Staying friends with ex‐romantic partners: Predictors, reasons, and outcomes

Abstract: In two studies, we identified predictors of staying friends with an ex-partner, developed and validated a measure for reasons to stay friends with exes, and examined the outcomes of staying friends. We identified four reasons to stay friends with exes: Security, Practical, Civility, and Unresolved Romantic Desires. Sex, sexual orientation, attachment styles, personality traits, time since breakup, and reasons for breakup all predicted staying friends. Staying friends due to Unresolved Romantic Desires resulted… Show more

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“…Given the importance of friendship as a source of social support for LGBTQ+ individuals, it is not surprising that research published in JSPR and PR has sought to learn more about the types of friendship patterns among LGBTQ+ individuals. LGBTQ+ people are more likely to stay friends with their ex-romantic partners than heterosexuals, mainly because they do not wish to lose the social and emotional support they received from their partners (Griffith et al, 2017). Research on whether the content and quality of LGBTQ+ people's friendships with heterosexuals differ compared to their LGBTQ+ friendships is mixed.…”
Section: Social Support In and For Lgbtq+ Relationshipsmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Given the importance of friendship as a source of social support for LGBTQ+ individuals, it is not surprising that research published in JSPR and PR has sought to learn more about the types of friendship patterns among LGBTQ+ individuals. LGBTQ+ people are more likely to stay friends with their ex-romantic partners than heterosexuals, mainly because they do not wish to lose the social and emotional support they received from their partners (Griffith et al, 2017). Research on whether the content and quality of LGBTQ+ people's friendships with heterosexuals differ compared to their LGBTQ+ friendships is mixed.…”
Section: Social Support In and For Lgbtq+ Relationshipsmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…What remains less known are the effects of ambivalence within the context of post-dissolution relationships. Although a breakup might be declared, many ex-partners remain in contact or redefine their relationship (Griffith et al, 2017; Mogilski & Welling, 2017). Such contact might result in perpetuating individuals’ conflicting thoughts and feelings about ex-partners, which could hamper their daily well-being and functioning (Sbarra & Emery, 2005).…”
Section: Relational Ambivalence and Post-dissolution Distressmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Obviously, those who are primarily positive about their former partners should be more likely to attempt reconciliation than those who hold primarily negative evaluations of their ex-partner as they likely anticipate more rewards from maintaining a relationship with the ex-partner (Griffith et al, 2017; Mogilski & Welling, 2017). Those who renew their relationships do so because they have lingering feelings, wish to regain previous positive outcomes, or anticipate greater positive outcomes (e.g., Dailey et al, 2011).…”
Section: Relational Ambivalence and Post-dissolution Distressmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…The TIPI has been validated in the USA (Jonason et al , 2011) and as an internationally acceptable instrument with a German adaptation (Muck et al , 2007a, 2007b) and in a Spanish setting (Romero et al , 2012). The TIPI has been utilized in a variety of situations (Griffith et al , 2017; Celik et al , 2016; Park and Lee, 2012). The TIPI was selected for use in this current study as a short, validated instrument.…”
Section: Literature Reviewmentioning
confidence: 99%