The properties of the intramolecular hydrogen bonds of doubly 15N‐labeled protonated sponges of the 1,8‐bis(dimethylamino)naphthalene (DMANH+) type have been studied as a function of the solvent, counteranion, and temperature using low‐temperature NMR spectroscopy. Information about the hydrogen‐bond symmetries was obtained by the analysis of the chemical shifts δH and δN and the scalar coupling constants J(N,N), J(N,H), J(H,N) of the 15NH15N hydrogen bonds. Whereas the individual couplings J(N,H) and J(H,N) were averaged by a fast intramolecular proton tautomerism between two forms, it is shown that the sum |J(N,H)+J(H,N)| generally represents a measure of the hydrogen‐bond strength in a similar way to δH and J(N,N). The NMR spectroscopic parameters of DMANH+ and of 4‐nitro‐DMANH+ are independent of the anion in the case of CD3CN, which indicates ion‐pair dissociation in this solvent. By contrast, studies using CD2Cl2, [D8]toluene as well as the freon mixture CDF3/CDF2Cl, which is liquid down to 100 K, revealed an influence of temperature and of the counteranions. Whereas a small counteranion such as trifluoroacetate perturbed the hydrogen bond, the large noncoordinating anion tetrakis[3,5‐bis(trifluoromethyl)phenyl]borate B[{C6H3(CF3)2}4]− (BARF−), which exhibits a delocalized charge, made the hydrogen bond more symmetric. Lowering the temperature led to a similar symmetrization, an effect that is discussed in terms of solvent ordering at low temperature and differential solvent order/disorder at high temperatures. By contrast, toluene molecules that are ordered around the cation led to typical high‐field shifts of the hydrogen‐bonded proton as well as of those bound to carbon, an effect that is absent in the case of neutral NHN chelates.