In this work, we study optical manipulation and conversion in the high-power regime, and thus the unavoidable intrinsic coupling between the pump light and the signal light, i.e., pump depletion, needs to be included. Compared with the transmission properties insensitive to the power of the signal light in the low-power regime with pump non-depletion, our results in the high-power regime with pump depletion show that the resonant transmission intensities of $\chi^{(2)}$ nonlinearity can be manipulated from $0$ to nonzero by adjusting the intensities of the signal light, and thus it behaves as an intensity-dependent all-optical switch. Although the resonant conversion efficiencies from four-wave mixing of $\chi^{(3)}$ nonlinearity are generally suppressed by power-dependent frequency shifts resulted from self-phase and cross-phase modulations in the high pump regime, conversion efficiencies can be amplified by tuning frequency detunings of signal and pump lights. Optical transmission intensities and conversion efficiencies can also be enhanced by utilizing interplaying between $\chi^{(2)}$ and $\chi^{(3)}$ nonlinearities in the high pump regime. The mechanism of enhancing the conversion efficiencies to overcome the suppression from self-phase and cross-phase modulations provides a new way to convert frequency with high efficiencies.