“…Research guided by the ISM has not yet tested these hypotheses, but some literature supports the idea. Specifically, rejection has been shown to decrease choosiness (Reeve, Kelley, & Welling, 2016), mate expectations (Zhang et al, 2015), and mating aspirations (Kavanagh et al, 2010), while acceptance has been shown to increase mating aspirations (Kavanagh et al, 2010) and self-esteem (Kavanagh, Fletcher, & Ellis, 2014). However, some studies do not find such effects for acceptance (Zhang et al, 2015), which aligns with sociometer theory’s argument that acceptance is less impactful than rejection.…”