“…When we reviewed social systems measures , we found some flexible family systems measures (Hamilton, Carr, Cahill, Cassells, & Hartnett, ; Pinsof et al., ), but mostly we found measures of systems functioning (see Sprenkle & Piercy, ) like the Family Assessment Device (Epstein, Baldwin, & Bishop, ; Mansfield, Keitner, & Dealy, ; Staccini, Tomba, Grandi, & Keitner, ) and the Family Adaptability and Cohesions Scale (Olsen, Protner, & Lavee, ). These measures assess the level of functioning in dyadic relationships (“you‐me”; e.g., Alonso‐Arbiol, Balluerka, Shaver, & Gillath, ) or whole families (“we‐as‐a‐whole”; e.g., Green, Harris, Forte, & Robinson, ) and encourage judgments from a meta‐perspective on the system, for example, “How would you value what is happening in the system that you are part of in terms of we ?” Systemic measures that allow the clients to decide whom they consider to be the principal members of their social system still are rare: Most focus on problems rather than solutions.…”