“…Gobodo-Madikizela & Van der Merwe, 2009;Lephakga, 2016;Vosloo, 2015;. For example, John Brewer 5 has advocated for the use of "mercy" instead of forgiveness (Brewer & Hayes, 2016). His contention is that discourses of forgiveness are too contingent on the actions of the offending party, and the expectation of grace on the part of offended party is frequently unreasonable.…”