“…Assessing the risks and benefits of treatment options and considering the illness trajectory was difficult for the family, and making decisions ''in the heat of the moment'' was painful [20,24,31]. Nevertheless, they expected doctors and other staff to recognize their needs for guidance and to communicate information in a timely and compassionate manner [24,26,28,30]. When health personnel failed to share information, family members felt abandoned in the decision-making process.…”