“…Stories include cases such as a beloved sister or daughter put to death by her male relative to prevent her falling into the hands of the enemy; a woman pregnant by, bearing, and eventually rearing the child of her rapist; a woman repatriated by the government to a home environment grown more hostile to her than the enemy's… As the author describes the terrible ordeals her informants have 8 of 16 -CRAPO KIM been through, she builds our awareness of an ultimate indignity: these women are unable to give voice to their suffering because there are no words to describe it. (Fonseca, 2011, p. 308, p. 308) Das's account of indescribable and ordinary suffering joins narratives of painful de-kinning and its subsequent complex iterations, such as prisons that separate parents from their kin and may protect kin from violent members (Moore, 2019). The politics of borders also exacerbate the pain and complexity of de-kinning; de-kinning is a banal event.…”