“…Avoiding the problem focus of counselling or therapy in this way could be a collusion with the client's denial of the pain he or she is in. I am reminded of a paper by Coleman and Etchegoyen (1992) which examines the powerful effect on staff of patients in a STD clinic. They noticed that alongside`the patients' insatiable demand for exclusive care' was the defensive denial of severe problems in relation to dependence and loss.…”