This paper investigates the mothering experiences of college-educated Deaf women and connects this to their identities as part of the Deaf community. Using feminist life history interviews with ten Deaf women, the analysis focuses on their work as mothers and the connections with ''maternal thinking,'' difference and sameness. Discussions about wanting hearing or deaf children and communication with children influenced their identities and were part of the disciplined practice of this work. The women developed strategies to ''normalize'' experiences and viewed themselves as a linguistic minority. They made political decisions when using American Sign Language, English, or both and resonated with the Deaf community, hearing world, or ''in between.'' They worked to ensure the acceptability of their children as well as themselves. The author argues that an analysis of ability along with gender is useful to further current theorizing about gender and mothering as a kind of work.How do deaf women experience their lives as mothers? What challenges might these women face and how do they deal with these challenges? How might their stories inform the current literatures on the sociology of gender and mothering? These questions are the focus of this paper, which is about the experiences of deaf mothers. Through the use of interviews, this project, while considering the intersection of ability along with gender, fills a gap in the literature on the sociology of gender and disability that, until recently, scholars have left fairly understudied. What the interviewees tell us about their experiences illustrate that considering ability along with gender provides a more complete picture of previously theorized topics, such as the work of mothers.
Meanings of MotherhoodLike other scholars, I view the family as an institution, which plays a critical role in establishing and maintaining women as those expected to do particular kinds of work (DeVault 1991, Harrington Meyer 2000. I also, as others do, view the family as a social construct where the positions of mothers and