“…By including this context in my writings, I not only include experiences from my professional and personal life but I also include the people around me who cocreate this context, whether it is my colleagues, friends, people in the field, co-producers of knowledge, distant acquaintances, those in powerful positions in the department we work at, reviewers, etc. Also in later writings, some of my encounters and lived experiences made it into public accounts, for example, in my doctoral thesis (De Craene, 2020), or in the reflections of an animated and at times uncomfortable discussion a panel on the researcher’s erotic subjectivities generated (De Graeve and De Craene, 2019). The many self-citations in this paragraph are no secret way to boost my H-index, but are included here only to show that my colleague was right: I do tend to write papers about what happens in my professional and personal life, and the very comment to warn my other colleague on social media indeed made it into this paper, ironically.…”