If the first step in developing an ethnography of everyday diplomacy requires re-scaling analytical focus on the forms of mediated exchange beyond the realm of the nation-state, this needs to be followed by an exploration of the 'sites' where everyday diplomacy actually takes place. One such 'site', which epitomizes the quintessence of diplomatic practice, is dining and commensality. By re-scaling this axiom beyond state-level diplomacy, I explore how the notion of sofra [table/dining etiquette] is deployed by a Muslim Dervish brotherhood in a post-cosmopolitan town in post-war Bosnia-Herzegovina. I suggest that the notion of sofra embodies both a mode of being diplomatic as well as a site of everyday diplomacy. The sofra thus enables the brotherhood to stage 'events of hospitality' to forge and mediate relationships between various 'others', locally and transnationally. interested in the other-worldly matters and Islamic healing and dreaming, he was told by his fellow villagers that he might witness some miracles in the lodge. The boy was warmly welcomed and taken to the room, with comfortable sofas covered by ram skins and embroiled pillows, where the sheikh usually received guests. The boy was immediately seated by one of the dervish disciples at the nearest corner of the sofa facing the sheikh, which is reserved for honoured guests. He was offered hot and cold drinks and a snack made of biscuits and fruits. The refreshments were served on the sofra 1 that had been spread between him and the sheikh. This gesture of hospitality, bringing the boy and the sheikh to the sofra, made the boy more relaxed. With increasing confidence he asked: 'Is it true that you can make the Qu'ran levitate when you are reciting from the book?'. The sheikh smiled, sipped from his glass of tea, encouraged the boy to eat something from the sofra and replied: 'Making the Qu'ran levitate? That's nothing. It's more comfortable to make my heavy body levitate over the Qu'ran when I am reciting from the book, don't you think so? Unfortunately, I am not in the mood today so you will need to come another time'. Everyone in the room apart from the boy, who was still hoping to see something miraculous, laughed. Then the sheikh started asking the boy questions about the village and a number of villagers whom he seemed to know.The boy, evidently perplexed by both the response as well as the sheikh's detailed knowledge of his own village and individual villagers, a kind of miracle [keramet] as well, answered all questions and left the lodge. To my knowledge he has never come back.Here I am less concerned about the details of the boy, as his story is not entirely unique in the social life in the lodge -on the contrary. Over the years of my fieldwork in the lodge I have become accustomed to such guests, diverse categories of individuals, coming from the town, surrounding villages and further afield. The questions they seek the sheikh to answer concern miraculous healing, and making and writing amulets [zapis]. Although the sheikh did not perform 3...