“…Parenthood is to be understood in relation to childhood, and what is considered “good” parenthood should be situated in relation to notions of children's interests and rights (Lind, Westerling, Sparrman, & Dannesboe, ). Within contemporary Western thought, there are certain expectations for how children should be positioned as participants, building on children's rights to be considered as independent actors and not as parents' property (Alanen, ; Bekken, ; Gulbrandsen, ). Furthermore, current Western ideology encourages women in particular to “mother” their children intensively and selflessly, responding to their children's every want and need (Bemiller, , self‐citation).…”