The condition of being subjected to both natu ral (in the scientific and lay sense) conditions and to others' power affectable "I": The scientific construction of non-European minds -Denise Ferreira da Silva, Toward a Global Idea of Race By disaffection, I emphasize not only emotional distance, alienation, antipathy, and isolation but also to center this word's other connotation of disloyalty to regimes of power.-Martin F. Manalansan IV, "Servicing the World: Flexible Filipinos and the Unsecured Life" I thus am able to conceive of the opacity of the other for me, without reproach for my opacity to him. To feel in solidarity with him or to build with him or to like what he does, it is not necessary for me to grasp him.-Édouard Glissant, Poetics of Relation white feelings, white tears, white fragility, white women's tears, white men's tears: these phrases circulate within popu lar antiracist social justice discourse galvanized by the Black Lives Matter movement. These phrases articulate frustration with the ongoing manifestations of what scholars have