“…Older people attach great importance to remaining in their own home, and they regard the help as a way of accomplishing this (Liveng, ; Breitholtz et al ., ; Witsø et al ., ; Glasdam et al ., ; Moe et al ., ; Hillcoat‐Nallétamby, ). They adapt to their new life and are willing to organise their homes in such a way as to be independent of help for as long as possible.…”