The response of cells to existential threats such as virus invasion often involves semi-crystalline polymerization of certain signaling proteins, but the highly ordered nature of the polymers has no known function. We hypothesized that the undiscovered function is kinetic in nature, emerging from the nucleation barrier to the underlying phase transition, rather than the material polymers themselves. We explored this idea using fluorescence microscopy and Distributed Amphifluoric FRET (DAmFRET) to characterize the phase behavior of all 116 members of the death fold domain (DFD) superfamily, the largest group of putative polymer modules in human immune signaling. A subset of them polymerized in a nucleation-limited manner able to digitize cell state. These were enriched for the highly connected hubs of the DFD protein-protein interaction network. Full-length (F.L) signalosome adaptors retained this activity. We then designed and carried out a comprehensive nucleating interaction screen to map the pathways of signaling through the network. The results recapitulated known signaling pathways including a recently discovered link between the different cell death subroutines of pyroptosis and extrinsic apoptosis. We went on to validate this nucleating interaction in vivo. In the process, we discovered that the inflammasome is powered by constitutive supersaturation of the adaptor protein, ASC, implying that innate immune cells are thermodynamically fated for inflammatory cell death. Finally, we showed that supersaturation in the extrinsic apoptosis pathway commits cells to die, whereas the lack of supersaturation in the intrinsic apoptosis pathway permits cells to recover. Our results collectively suggest that innate immunity comes at the cost of occasional spontaneous cell death, and uncover a physical basis for the progressive nature of age-associated inflammation.