Friendship is of great concern to young children (Unicef, 2011). Research also suggests the positive outcomes friendships have on children's development, learning and well-being (Daniels et al, 2010;Hedges & Cooper, 2017). This paper highlights how young children select their friends and how practitioners might use this data to support children's friendship choices. It draws upon on a phenomenological study of five, five and six year olds during which data were collected through small world play interviews. Findings provide new insights into how children select their friends, including pre-selection, using a selection criteria and putting selection into action. This paper argues for the need to listen to children's friendship selections and consider potential implications for practice.