Shared decision-making (SDM), the cornerstone of family-centred care and the gold standard in health decision-making, occurs when the patient, family members and the health-care team members partner to make health decisions about the child. This partnership involves an exchange of medical information and information about patient/family preferences and values. Together, the health-care team, parent and patient deliberate to determine the best course of action for the child. Despite high-quality evidence supporting its positive impact on outcomes, SDM has not been widely adopted in paediatric clinical practice. Greater understanding of the impact of SDM on all members of the decision triad (parent, patient and health-care provider) may increase the likelihood of SDM adoption. Therefore, we present the viewpoints of a paediatric patient, parent and paediatrician about the use of SDM. A youth living with a rare chronic disease discusses the impacts of being involved and excluded from health decisions. A mother of a son living with a rare nephrotic condition discusses working with a health-care team who are committed and skilled in SDM and the positive impacts SDM has had for her son's care. A general paediatrician with research expertise in SDM discusses the individual and system level challenges and rewards of using SDM in her clinical practice. Based on the viewpoints presented, we offer pragmatic recommendations for using SDM in paediatric clinical practice.Early in their development, we teach children to share. As social beings, sharing is a vital life skill that encourages us to recognise and respond to the needs of others and collaborate to achieve a common goal. Sharing shows compassion, respect, and care for our fellow humans. In paediatric health care, it is reasonable to expect that sharing be a basic, natural and humanistic approach for clinicians, children and families to achieve a common goal: the best health outcomes for the child. In fact, sharing health decisions can improve patient outcomes. 1 In paediatrics, shared decision-making (SDM) happens when the health-care team, parents and child collaborate as partners to make health decisions. 2 Simply put, the health-care team shares their expert knowledge (i.e. evidence) and clinical experience, the parent and child share their expertise about their values, preferences and circumstances, and together they discuss and decide on the best treatment plan for the child. 3 Unlike paternalistic or autonomous decision-making, the onus is not on one person (i.e. the child) to make the final decision, but rather the decision is equitably (not necessarily equally) shared in a manner consistent with the child's developmental abilities and the child and parent's preferences for involvement.Despite being at the core of patient and family-centred care and necessary to achieve evidence-based health decisionmaking, 4,5 SDM is not common practice in paediatrics. 6,7 Here, we present the independent viewpoints of a youth, parent and paediatrician on the importance and ch...