We introduce a three-parameter family of up-down ordered Chinese restaurant processes PCRP (α) (θ 1 , θ 2 ), α ∈ (0, 1), θ 1 , θ 2 ≥ 0, generalising the two-parameter family of Rogers and Winkel. Our main result establishes self-similar diffusion limits, SSIP (α) (θ 1 , θ 2 )-evolutions generalising existing families of interval partition evolutions. We use the scaling limit approach to extend stationarity results to the full three-parameter family, identifying an extended family of Poisson-Dirichlet interval partitions. Their ranked sequence of interval lengths has Poisson-Dirichlet distribution with parameters α ∈ (0, 1) and θ := θ 1 + θ 2 − α ≥ −α, including for the first time the usual range of θ > −α rather than being restricted to θ ≥ 0. This has applications to Fleming-Viot processes, nested interval partition evolutions and tree-valued Markov processes, notably relying on the extended parameter range.