Many psychotherapists cry in therapy sessions. Those clinicians who do cry see it as likely to have a positive impact on the therapy or to have no impact, and therapist personality characteristics have not shown reliable associations to crying in therapy. However, it is not known how patients experience therapists' crying, or whether the patient's view of the therapist's characteristics is related to that experience. This study used an online survey, recruiting 202 patients with eating disorders, 188 of whom had received therapy for an eating disorder, and 105 of whom had experienced a therapist crying. Retrospective data from those 105 individuals indicated that therapists' crying tended to be seen positively, but that perception was influenced by the patients' perceptions of the demeanor of their therapist and their understanding of the meaning of the crying. While they need to be extended to other disorders, these findings suggest that therapists' crying needs to be understood in the context of the therapist's perceived characteristics and demeanor, rather than being assumed by therapists to be positive or to have no impact on the therapy.Keywords: Psychotherapy; therapist; patient; crying IMPACT OF CLINICIANS' CRYING 3
Patients' Experiences of Clinicians' Crying during Psychotherapy for Eating DisordersPsychotherapy has a tradition of focusing on the inner world of the patient. However, the inner world of the therapist is also important, as it interacts with that of the patient. Such interaction appears in many forms in the literature, including constructs such as transference/countertransference and the therapeutic alliance. Therefore, regardless of therapeutic orientation, it is important to consider the therapist's reactions to the client during the session (e.g., Gelso & Hayes, 2007;Gilbert & Leahy, 2007;Summers & Barber, 2010).This study addresses one specific reaction -the therapist crying in the session, and the impact of that experience on the patient.Emotional experience in the therapy session and how it can disrupt therapy if unattended are key elements of therapists' reactions. This concept is not limited to the psychodynamic construct of countertransference. For example, Waller (2009) has hypothesised that cognitive-behavioral therapists who experience higher levels of anxiety are less likely to implement core behavioral techniques, making them less effective.Following a series of small-scale reports in the literature, Blume-Marcovici, Stolberg and Khademi (2013) surveyed a large number of psychologists and trainees (N = 684) regarding one specific emotional marker -the therapist crying in therapy. In this relatively diverse group of clinicians, using a variety of therapeutic approaches with a wide range of patients, they reported that over 70% of the therapists reported ever having cried in therapy (with 30% having done so in the past four weeks). Pope, Tabachnick and Keith-Spiegel (1987) found a slightly lower lifetime rate for therapists' crying (56.5%), but these findings represent a ...