The purpose of this qualitative study was to examine how caring relationships are created and maintained between middle school students and their teachers. Through conducting interviews, holding focus group sessions, and making classroom observations, urban students' perceptions of caring relationships with teachers are revealed. Open and axial coding of transcribed tapes and field notes led to findings suggesting that teachers are seen as caring when they know their students well, provide personalized leadership for their students, teach to understanding and are academically helpful, and hold high expectations for behavior and achievement. Clearly, these urban students felt it was important for teachers to care. Questions are raised for further investigation on the issues of power and control in the urban classroom.Caring for students is frequently cited by novice teachers as a primary rationale for entering the teaching profession (McLaughlin, 1991); yet surprisingly little attention is given in the research as to what it means to care and how caring relationships are created and maintained with students. Teaching middle-level urban youth is an exceedingly complex undertaking. Urban students, responding in part perhaps to years of teachers who do not know how to create caring relationships with them, sometimes adapt the posture of daring teachers to teach them anything (Haberman, 1987). The adage "Urban students have to know you care before they care what you know" underscores the importance of providing caring moral education that is experiential and tied to a sense of community has been 241