Despite societal shifts making the United States more inclusive, particularly among younger people, transgender people and people of color remain populations that have labels like "exotic" or "taboo" associated with them. This article explores the racialized dating experiences of an immigrant trans woman of color who uses online dating platforms to facilitate her dating life in Texas. Given that the existing literature on trans people tends to focus on identity development, health concerns, or questions of legality and policy in arenas such as the workplace and in education, there is still limited research on the romantic and sexual lives of trans people. In fact, much of the growing research on trans relationships focuses either on couples where one partner transitioned and the couple maintained a relationship or studies lumping trans experiences under an LGBT umbrella. Using an intersectional theoretical approach, this case study unpacks how race, racism, and transphobia, as well as internalized racial and gender logics, work in tandem to shape desirability and date ability.You find somebody who matches everything with you emotionally, physically and sexually but they're not fully. . .they're not fully sure of who they are or their sexuality. And then it fucks with them and then it fucks with you and it fucks the whole relationship. So, that's when it gets complicated. . . .You meet the men who are really into it, who will open up and be happy with you. And sometimes you fall for them and that's great. And sometimes you fall for the idea of them.Nina, 39Recently, there has been increased attention to toxic masculinity within relationships between cisgender men and transgender women. The Human Rights Campaign has tracked the murders of transgender women over the last several years and noted many of the victims-predominantly black transgender women-were killed by acquaintances and partners. 1 In fact, the recent suicide of the cisgender partner of a trans woman who was bullied online for defending his trans girlfriend captured headlines only to be clarified that his suicide was in response to his trans woman partner leaving the relationship out of fear for her own safety (Marr 2019). Nina, the trans woman quoted above, and her dating experiences comprise the singular case the following article is based on. In her assessment that gender and sexuality influence whether potential partners "fall" for each other or for the "idea of each other," she articulates tensions many transgender women contend with as they pursue romantic relationships.While trans perspectives are gaining more traction in mainstream media and social media spaces due to blogging, opinion pieces, and commentary from transgender public figures, social science literature remains woefully behind (Schilt and Lagos 2017). Social scientists have primarily focused on transgender subjects in relation to medical access and identity development, and in relation to laws and policy concerning families, workplaces, and educational settings. As Zamantakis (2019...