“…There is no doubt that taking care of oneself is important and, as illustrated in the research mentioned above, the type of self-care (for example mindfulness meditation compared to treating oneself to ice cream) does indeed matter. Living in line with one's values (e.g., Neiterman & Ladha, 2022), fostering healthy relationships and being social in general (e.g., Sandstrom & Dunn, 2014), and practicing self-compassion (Zessin et al, 2015) have all been shown to be beneficial to psychological wellbeing. And there are times when putting on one's oxygen mask first, either to assist others or as a form of self-protection, is indeed the optimal strategy, for example for people at risk of burnout (e.g., Mikolajczak & Roskam, 2020).…”